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Unik Articles: Porn and sexual objectification – Victor Orji Ojembe

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Do you know when you constantly consume porn to feed your sexual impulse and desire, you are indirectly objectifying the characters in the porn movie or video especially the women?

I was carrying out a study on female objectification throughout last weekend to understand the madness behind pornography because of my thought pattern and how I reason everytime.

Years ago in school, I overheard a discussion on porn in my class by few guys and how they described the women in the movie and the sexual lust and desire they derived from watching the movie. Their explanations were detailed and the description of the body parts of the women was just crazy and barbaric but I listened.

The fact and truth is, many times we don’t see it, we don’t know this and we are so ignorant of the idea which comes to our head when we constantly consume porn. We grade women based on body parts, we use their body parts to fulfill a certain sexual desire in our head. You look at the naked picture of a woman and you run to the bath room to “wank” yourself and release. Sexual gratification and objectification. To you they are not human beings, they are just tools to feed your sexual lust and desire.

It translates in the real world. You meet a lady and they only stuff which resonates in your head is her sexual features. Her body parts, her boobs, her buttocks and the crazy imaginations in your head. You want to do the crazy violent things you watch in the porn sites, you want to be dominant and dominate her with pure violence because of what you have been feeding your mind with.

You talk to lady and the next thing you ask for is her nude pictures. You want to see her nude and wank yourself based on what you see and what she has. Sexual objectification.
We consume pornographic materials not knowing the damage we do to ourselves psychologically and the crazy way we start viewing women.

What comes to your mind when you see a lady with big boobs? What comes to your mind when a curvy lady passes? Most times it is how to feed on those sexual parts on the lady and not even to know her as a PERSON, as an INDIVIDUAL, an a HUMAN BEING complete in all ramifications.

I consumed a bit of pornography when I was way younger and the idea of using women was all I could get as I watched. The violence, the usage and the dominance which is mostly seen in pornographic materials.

Nowadays we have young boys with access to the internet and they consume these things without knowing the psychological implications. They try to act the abuse, dominance and violence they see in the pornographic movies in their phone in real life. We are trying to create an environment of building the sense of equality in the heads of our male but an industry is subtly bringing it back in a different.

“The world doesn’t need what women have but what women are” – Edith Stein


And they are human beings, individuals, beautiful people, brilliant, innovators, business tycoons, freelancers, bloggers, politicians, diplomats and many more. They are not sexual tools to feed your sexual perversion. They are our sisters, our mothers, our friends, our cousins, our wives, our best friends, our confidants and many more.

Henry Samson

Blogger, lyric video editor and a music addict. The desire to see good music, videos and good contents in general circulated everywhere led to the creation of this blog. He's currently the head administrator of this blog.

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